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Marriage is one of the basic foundations of human life. Relationships between husband and wife are increasingly crucial in promoting mental wellbeing. Various factors can affect mental wellbeing. One of these components is the health of the main family. Another factor that affects the mental wellbeing of couples is communication. One of the factors that married couples are dealing with is alexithymia. The factor of forgiveness is one of the variables that has drawn the attention of researchers in the field of couple conflicts. Despite the critical role of forgiveness in marital satisfaction and adjustment, little research has investigated the mediating role of this variable in the relationship between the communication patterns of the health of the main family and alexithymia with the mental wellbeing of couples. Therefore, the present study aims to model the structural relationships between the health of the original family and alexithymia, and communication beliefs with the mental wellbeing of couples were conducted with the mediating role of forgiveness.

The research method was correlational analysis with structural equation modeling. The statistical population included all married couples seeking counseling at counseling centers in the city of Javanrud, Iran. According to Kline's rule (2023) and considering the sample size criteria, 200 couples were initially considered, but 22 questionnaires were excluded due to incomplete responses. The inclusion criteria were as follows: age range of 20–55 years, minimum education of high school, at least one year of cohabitation, informed consent to participate in research, and completing questionnaires. The exclusion criterion was the failure to complete the questionnaires. The data collection tools consisted of the Subjective Wellbeing in Couple Relationship Scale (Urbano–Contreras et al., 2018), the Family–of–Origin Scale (Hovestadt et al., 1985), the Toronto Alexithymia Scale (Bagby et al., 1994), the Relationship Beliefs Questionnaire (Romans & DeBord, 1995), and the Family Forgiveness Scale (Pollard & Anderson, 1998). To analyze the collected data, the statistical method of structural equation modeling by partial least square method was used in Smart PLS version 3 software.

The effect coefficient of health in the main family on mental wellbeing in couples' relationships (β=0.41, p˂0.001), communicative beliefs on mental wellbeing in couples' relationships (β=0.213, p˂0.001), health in the family on the level of forgiveness (β=0.303, p˂0.001), communication beliefs on forgiveness (β=0.273, p˂0.001), and forgiveness on mental wellbeing in couples' relationships (β=0.252, p=0.002) was positive and significant and the effect coefficient of alexithymia on forgiveness was negative and significant (β=–0.481, p˂0.001). Also, the mediating effect of forgiveness in relation to health in the main family on mental wellbeing in couple relationships was positive and significant (β=0.076, p=0.018), the indirect effect of alexithymia through forgiveness on mental wellbeing in couple relationships was negative and significant (β=–0.121, p=0.002), and the mediating effect of forgiveness in relation to communicative beliefs on subjective wellbeing in couples' relationships was not confirmed (β=0.069, p=0.007).

According to the research findings, forgiveness plays a mediating role in the relationship between the health of the main family and alexithymia and communicative beliefs related to the mental wellbeing of couples.

This study compares emotion-oriented schema therapy and transactional analysis's effectiveness in addressing marital conflict communication beliefs, aiming to improve effectiveness and reduce recovery time.

Methods and Materials: 

The research method is semi-experimental, with a pre-test-post-test design and a control group with a follow-up stage. The statistical population of this research consisted of all couples who referred to Abadan counseling centers and Abadan judicial service offices in 2022. The statistical sample consisted of 30 couples who were randomly divided into two experimental groups and one control group based on the criteria for entering the research. The research tool was Eidelson and Epstein (1982) Communication Beliefs Questionnaire. Research protocols included emotional schema therapy written by Leahy, Tirch and Napolitano (2011) and interactional behavior analysis by Eric Byrne (2011). Multivariate covariance analysis and Bonferroni post hoc test were performed using SPSS version 26 statistical software at a significance level of 0.05 for data analysis.

The findings show that in the groups of emotion-oriented schema therapy and transactional analysis, there is a significant difference in all variable components of communication beliefs in the pre-test, post-test and follow-up phases (p≤0.05), but There is no significant difference in between the post-test and follow-up (p≥0.05). Also, there is no significant difference between the two experimental groups in the post-tests and follow-up group comparison (p≥0.05); But there is a significant difference between the control group and the two experimental groups (p<0.05).

According to the results of the research, it can be said that both treatments are effective on the variable of communication beliefs and its components in couples with marital conflict.

Satisfaction and happiness from marital relationship decreases over time and among many couples. Communication problems have always been considered as one of the main causes of marital dissatisfaction and divorce. Marital heartbreak and marital incompatibility have become one of the most important events in life and have significant economic and social consequences. Heartbreak is a painful state of physical, emotional and mental exhaustion and affects those who expect dream love to give meaning to their lives. This situation occurs when they realize that despite their efforts, their relationship has not and will not give meaning to life. In the meantime, marital conflicts are of particular importance, and when conflicts occur, relationships become weaker or stronger. Usually, conflict is defined as a lack of agreement and opposition between spouses, inconsistency in behavior, opinions and goals in opposition to the other. The inability to communicate logically with the spouse is considered the most common problem that unhappy couples raise and have reported as a significant relationship between communication beliefs and marital conflicts.Research on the issue of marital dissatisfaction is important for several reasons. Some of these reasons are related to the importance of the family institution in today's society. Others are related to the quality of life and the effect that marital boredom can have on other aspects of life. Unfortunately, family damage has increased in many countries, the divorce rate has increased in recent years and has reached its peak in the last decade. There may be problems that lead couples to decide to separate, such as motivation for separation, intense conflict, and chronic violent events. The present study was conducted with the aim of investigating the prediction of marital dissatisfaction based on marital conflicts and communication beliefs in couples applying for divorce.

The population of this research included all couples applying for divorce who referred to the family court and dispute resolution council of Mashhad during the fall of 2018 (122,000 divorce cases). For this purpose, 100 couples (200 people) were selected from the mentioned society by purposeful sampling method. The criteria for include the research included: having a minimum education in reading and writing (in order to be able to read and understand self-report questionnaires), having at least one year of cohabitation, not having a history of divorce or remarriage. The exclusion criterion was non-cooperation in completing the questionnaire. Ethical considerations including obtaining informed consent, guaranteeing privacy and confidentiality were fully respected. In order to collect data, Marital Distress Scale (MDS; Kaiser, 1996), Revised Marital Conflicts Questionnaire (MCQ-R; Sanai et al., 2018) and Communication Beliefs Questionnaire (RBI; Eidelson & Epstein, 1982) were used. In Iran, for the first time, Saadati et al. (32) in a study with a sample of 300 people obtained the reliability of the scale of marital boredom, using Cronbach's alpha method, 0.79. Cronbach's alpha for the entire questionnaire of marital conflicts by Sanai et al., on a group of 270 people, was equal to 0.96 and for subscales from 0.56 to 0.89. O’leary also reported the reliability of communication beliefs questionnaire from 0.72 to 0.81. The obtained data were analyzed using the method of Pearson correlation coefficient and multiple regression.

The average length of marriage of the participants in the research was 9.05 years. In examining the results of the Pearson correlation test to examine the relationship between the sub-components of the predictor variables and the criterion variable, it was observed that only 3 of the sub-components of marital conflicts (including a decrease in family relationship with relatives, spouse and friends; a decrease in effective communication; and an increase in emotional reactions) have a significant positive relationship with marital burnout. Regarding the sub-components of communication beliefs, 4 beliefs of destructiveness of opposition, expectation of mind reading, belief in the immutability of the spouse, and sexual perfectionism have a significant relationship with marital dissatisfaction; In the case of sexual perfectionism, this relationship was negative, and in the case of the three beliefs of destructive opposition, expectation of mind reading, and belief in the immutability of the spouse, there was a negative relationship with marital dissatisfaction. The relationship between the belief about gender differences and marital dissatisfaction was not significant. Also, the results showed that the multiple regression model was significant (p<0.001) and the components of these two variables were able to significantly predict 30% of the variance of marital boredom (R=0.552 and R2=0.304). Decrease in effective communication and increase in emotional reactions (one of the components of marital conflicts), belief in the immutability of the spouse and sexual perfectionism (one of the components of communication beliefs) can significantly predict marital burnout. The expectation belief of mind reading was also close to the significant level (p=0.052). Among these components, sexual perfectionism had a negative effect and the rest had a positive effect in predicting marital dissatisfaction.

When two people, as a couple, live together, conflict will occur. Due to the nature of couples' interaction, there are times when disagreements are observed or needs are not met, as a result, spouses feel anger, despair and dissatisfaction towards each other. Couples who have good communication skills will have a positive evaluation and a broader view of various aspects of incompatible issues and events in their lives, and they will often use problem-oriented strategies in dealing with issues and problems. While couples who have not learned the necessary communication skills and problem-solving methods correctly, they often use ineffective methods to resolve conflicts in stressful and challenging situations and end up suffering from marital burnout. The findings obtained in the present research and other similar researches, while clarifying some important issues in the society, provide the ground for establishing accuracy of opinion and more emphasis on identifying the fields of conflict resolution. According to these facts and the results of the present research, it can be said that it is necessary to apply these theories in treating the problems of couples with marital conflicts, in addition to creating facilities for increasing the knowledge of therapists, so that in this way it is possible to improve and enhance the quality of life of people. Therefore, according to the results of this research and the role of communication conflicts and beliefs in predicting marital dissatisfaction, it is necessary for family counselors to examine these cases in pre-marriage counseling and when marital conflicts occur, and in the case of divorce applicants, and prepare targeted interventions for them.

This research was conducted with the aim of comparing the effectiveness of integrated behavioral couple therapy and schema-based couple therapy on the communication beliefs of conflicted couples in Shiraz.

The research method was semi-experimental with a pre-test-post-test design and a two-month follow-up. The statistical population consisted of all conflicted couples who were referred to Fajr Shiraz counseling center in 1401, who were selected by purposeful sampling of 45 couples and were replaced by randomization in three groups: integrated behavioral couple therapy, schema-oriented couple therapy, and waiting list. Zaker and Brati's Marital Conflicts Questionnaire (2008) and Idelson and Epstein's Communication Beliefs Questionnaire (1990) were used to collect data. Experiment group one received a 16-session integrated behavioral couple therapy protocol and experiment group two received a 13-session schema-based couple therapy protocol and the control group was placed on the waiting list. The data was analyzed by analysis of variance with repeated measurements.

The results showed that both integrated behavioral couple therapy and schema-based couple therapy interventions were effective on communication beliefs and this effect was stable in the follow-up period.

Therefore, both integrated behavioral couple therapy and schema-based couple therapy are effective treatments for reducing irrational communication beliefs in couples..

This research investigates the relationship betweencommunication beliefs and social interest mediated bydifferentiation of self in students.

The research is correlative of thestructural equation using PLS software which is conducted via asurvey type method. All students at Islamic Azad University,Khomeini Shahar Unit (from 2019 to 2020) comprised the statisticalpopulation. The sampling method was random clustering with thetotal samples amounting to 300 people. The subjects responded tothe Skowron & Friedlander (1998)’s Differentiation of SelfInventory (DSI), Adelson & Epstein (1982)’s CommunicationStandardized Beliefs Questionnaire, and Greever et al.’s SocialInterest Scale (1973.)

The model test indicated that the direct effects ofcommunication beliefs on social interest had been rejected;however, considering the significant effects of communicationbeliefs on differentiation of self and differentiation of self on socialinterests, the mediating role of differentiation of self in therelationship between communication beliefs and social interest wasconfirmed (p> 0.05), with the indirect effect intensity at 0.053.Accordingly, communication beliefs were found to only have anindirect effect on social interest.

This research demonstrated that increasingdifferentiation of self could improve communication beliefs andpromote social interests

Background &

Family is known as the most important unit of societies and marriage is the most basic human relationship; Because the basic structure of family relationships and the growth of the next generations depends on the formation of the family. The family center is based on love and is the center of love and affection, however, marriage is not always desirable and in some situations, life becomes almost impossible for couples. In a situation where a couple is not able to respond to each other's basic needs and marital expectations and has low skills, there is a possibility of filing for divorce. Divorce or asking for divorce is one of the reliable indicators of marital conflict in marital relations and emotional separation between couples. Divorce-seeking couples have a negative relationship and unsettled marital relationship and get confused. Also, the negative interactions of couples applying for divorce are more than their positive interactions. Relational beliefs are among the factors that affect the relationship of couples and have a significant relationship with the increase in divorce requests among couples. These beliefs are important both for the beginning of the relationship and for its continuation, in other words, correct verbal and non-verbal communication is the basis of a successful married life. Beliefs are influenced by factors such as internal processes, personality traits, environmental factors, and social context. According to Ellis (2003), many of the adverse reactions and problems are caused by the irrational beliefs and thoughts of couples, and as long as such thoughts continue, the problems related to communication, acceptance, and companionship will continue. These beliefs are a major issue in the analysis of social cognition and communication processes. This cognitive component can be useful or ineffective. If people's beliefs are realistic and logical, the relationship will progress. Useful communication beliefs, such as the belief that couples can change, can strengthen behaviors that lead to maintaining the relationship and improve the quality of the relationship. On the other hand, dysfunctional communication beliefs can act as a stable disorder and limit people's ability to deal with challenges in relationships. These are unrealistic beliefs and tendencies that refer to a person's bias in interpreting events and intimate relationships in an illogical way and are based on false or incorrect expectations. Communication beliefs affect the quality of life of couples. The purpose of this research was to compare the effectiveness of couple therapy based on acceptance and commitment and schema therapy on the quality of life and communication beliefs of couples applying for divorce.

This research was applied in terms of purpose and semi-experimental in terms of methodology with a pre-test and post-test design. The statistical population of this research was all the women applying for divorce who referred to the Arak Family Court, from which 45 couples were selected in a targeted and accessible way. In the pre-test stage, all the samples answered the research questionnaires, then they were randomly divided into two test groups and one control group. In the first group, 10 sessions of couple therapy based on acceptance and commitment were conducted, and in the second group, 10 sessions of schema therapy were performed. The control group remained without intervention. After finishing the sessions, in the post-test phase, all the samples answered the research questionnaires.

The results of the research showed that couple therapy based on acceptance and commitment (60%) was more effective than schema therapy (45%) in increasing the quality of life, and schema therapy (60%) was more effective than couple therapy based on acceptance. And commitment (56%) has been more effective in reducing communication beliefs.

In this treatment, mindfulness exercises, acceptance of thoughts, beliefs, feelings, and sensory and physical perceptions are used, and people are also taught that instead of intellectually and practically avoiding thoughts and situations in life, they face them by increasing psychological and mental acceptance of to internal experiences to increase the quality of life. Couples are taught that any action to avoid or control these unwanted mental experiences is ineffective or has the opposite effect and causes them to intensify. These experiences should be removed without any internal or external reaction. They fully accepted. The next step in this approach is to increase the psychological awareness of the individual at the moment, that is, the individual becomes aware of all his mental states, thoughts, and behavior in the present moment, actively and effectively confronting thoughts and feelings, changing the way he looks at himself and reviewing The values and goals of life increase the quality of life in couples. Implementation of the protocol can increase cooperation between couples, reduce emotional reactions, and increase effective communication between couples. This treatment aims to reduce suffering and increase well-being and the ultimate goal of acceptance and commitment therapy is to help increase psychological flexibility. Finally, acceptance and commitment increase psychological flexibility and examine problematic language and cognitions. In other words, this treatment, with its effects on the irrational thoughts of women with marital conflicts, improves their quality of life. Schema therapy has been more effective in reducing communication beliefs. These results are in line with the research. Schema therapy combines various elements of psychotherapy such as cognitive-behavioral and psychoanalytical. In schema therapy, gaps and gaps in couples' lives are identified and they are helped to learn how to fix them. This treatment reduces the impact of irrational communication beliefs in their relationships by increasing couples' effective conflict resolution skills. The approach of schema therapy is based on the awareness that many conflicts could have been caused by the stimulation of the spouse's schema. Each person can prepare a list of behaviors aimed at change.

Considering the negative and comprehensive effects of addiction on marital dynamics of addicted persons and their wives, the study was conducted to determine the effectiveness of integrated package of marital relationship enrichment and mindfulness-based cognitive therapy on marital satisfaction and relationship beliefs in women with addicted spouse.

This is a semi-experimental study with pre-test, post-test, follow-up and a control group. The statistical population included all women with addicted spouse in Isfahan in 2019 that 22 women with addicted spouses referring to addiction treatment clinics and camps in Isfahan city were selected by available sampling and were randomly assigned to experimental and control groups. The study instruments were Relationship beliefs inventory and Marital satisfaction questionnaires. Experimental group participated in eight 90-minute sessions of integrated package of marital relationship enrichment and mindfulness-based cognitive therapy but the control group did not receive any intervention. Multivariate analysis of covariance was used to analyze the data.

The results demonstrated that integrated package of marital relationship enrichment and mindfulness-based cognitive therapy the dimensions of psychological distress and the subscales of negative automatic thoughts in post-test and follow-up (p<0.05)

Based on the finding of this research integrated package of marital relationship enrichment and mindfulness-based cognitive therapy was effective on marital satisfaction and relationship beliefs in women with addicted spouse.

Dysfunctional relationship beliefs are one of the factors affecting marital dissatisfaction in couples applying for the divorce. The purpose of this study was to compare the effectiveness of McMaster and Bowen family therapy approaches on the relationship beliefs of couples applying for the divorce.

This study was a quasi-experimental method including a pretest-posttest with a control group. The statistical population consisted of all couples applying for the divorce and referred by the family court to counseling centers of Rasht city in 2017. Through the available sampling method, forty-eight couples who meet research entering criteria were selected as study and randomly assigned to three groups of sixteen people; in the end, the number reduced to ten people in each group due to Exit criteria. Two methods of McMaster and Bowen family therapy approaches were performed for Eight sessions of one hundred twenty minutes each for two experimental groups; while the control group did not receive any intervention. After completing the sessions, the post-test was applied to all groups. The instrument of this study was the Edelson & Epstein’s Relationship Beliefs Inventory. Data were analyzed using analysis of covariance and LSD post hoc test by SPSS22.

The results of the analysis of covariance and LSD post hoc test showed that Bowen Family Therapy and McMaster’s model had a significant effect on couples’ relationship beliefs while Bowen’s approach was more effective. (P = 0.037)

The results showed that Bowen family therapy was more effective than McMaster’s model on relationship beliefs in couples applying for the divorce. Therefore, this approach can be used to reduce dysfunctional relationship beliefs in couples applying for the divorce.

With the growing complexity of marriage and family, there is abundant literature on marital relationships and marital adjustment and an emerging understanding of how marriage might influence health and well-being. The understanding marital relationship is also very timely, given the changes the institution of marriage has been witnessing over the last several decades. The link between “better” or “worse” marriages and “sickness and health” has been a subject of much researcher interest over the last half-century. Being married contributes to concordance in health behaviors over time between spouses. Moreover, the marital adjustment may also buffer against the impact of non-marital stressors on health behaviors and increase personal resources (i.e., self-efficacy, self-regulatory capacity) needed for initiating and maintaining health behavior change. The marital strain may add or interact with non-marital stressors leading to increased use of health-compromising behaviors to cope with such stressors and decreasing personal resources that could be used during change attempts. Marital adjustment, which refers to affective and cognitive states along with the related actions that are precedent to terminating a relationship, is a crucial indicator of well-being. Several studies have shown that separated and divorced couples experience more significant risk for mental and physical health problems, as well as can have strong negative consequences for their children, such as impacting their children’s mental health, academic and social performance. Since marriage maladjustment is detrimental to the family unit and society, the importance of identifying the factors that promote marital adjustment is overwhelmingly apparent. Meanwhile, the role of the family and the way their members communicate with each other in shaping the quality of marital life is very important. The beliefs and cognitions that exist in the minds of individuals, such as couples, affect their communication. Understanding these beliefs and their influence on couples, family functioning, marital adjustment and the continuity of this relationship cannot be ignored. The purpose of this study was to compare the efficacy of the integrative behavioral couple therapy and couple rational- emotive- behavior therapy on communication beliefs among maladjustment couples.

This study method was a semi-experimental study with pre-test, post-test, and control group. The statistical population of this study was all couples with marital complaints referred to Ilam counselling and psychology centres in 2017. Among them, 30 couples were selected through the available sampling method and accidentally homogenized in three groups. Relationship Belief Inventory by Eidelson & Epstein (1982) for pre-test and post-test. Data were analyzed using multivariate analysis of covariance, Bonferroni follows up test and SPSS software and 0.05 probability values.

The results of this study showed that Integrative Behavioral Couple Therapy was effective on post-test scores of disagreement is destructive belief (20.10±2.58, p=0.001), mindreading is expected belief (22.50±4.12, p=0.001), partners cannot change belief (22.50±4.12, p=0.001), sexual perfectionism belief (22.40±3.72, p=0.001) and sexes are different belief (22.00±3.43, p=0.001). Rational-Emotive Behavior Therapy was effective on post-test scores of disagreement is destructive belief (19.45±2.23, p=0.001), mindreading is expected belief (23.40±3.16, p=0.002), partners cannot change belief (23.75±3.41, p=0.003), sexual perfectionism belief (22.00±3.15, p=0.001) and sexes are a different belief (22.30±3.71, p=0.001).

The purpose of psychotherapy is to make desirable changes in the system of individual beliefs. Rational-Emotive Behavior Therapy is characterized by commonly accepted approaches to cognition and behavior, which emphasizes thinking, judging, deciding, analyzing and practicing. Another method used for couple treatment is Integrative Behavioral Couple Therapy. The goal of Integrative Behavioral Couple Therapy is emotional acceptance through the release of vulnerable emotions that enhance empathy and change behavior. Based on the findings of this research couple therapists and counsellors can increase marital adjustment of the couple by training correct relational beliefs via integrative behavioral couple therapy and rational- emotive behavior therapy.

The studies showed that one of the factors which diminishes love gradually between couples - sometimes completely obliterates, and provides causes of mental and psychological problems, cold and indifferent relationships resulting ultimately in ending relationships-is couple burnout. Couple burnout is associated closely with people’s relationship beliefs that reveal the need for early interventions. This study aimed to examine the effectiveness of transactional analysis group therapy on relationship belief and couples burnout in married male students.
This study was a clinical trial with pretest-posttest design. For this purpose, using available sampling method, 24 students who referred to university counseling office from October to June 2015 – 2016 were selected voluntarily among married male students of humanities in Islamic Azad university, Quchan branch. They were then assigned to an experimental and a control group. Epstein and Eidelson's Relationship Belief Inventory (RBI), and couple burnout measure were taken from both groups as pre-test. The control group then participated in ten sessions of group therapy workshop based on transactional analysis. Two weeks after completing the sessions, they were evaluated again using the same questionnaires.
The findings showed that transactional analysis group therapy was effective on subscales of beliefs; disagreement is destructive (P=0.04), spouse's lack of adjustability (P=0.04), sexual perfectionism (P=0.04) and irrational relationship beliefs (P=0.04). No significant effect was seen on subscales of belief in gender differences (P=0.48) and mind reading expectation (P=0.65). Furthermore, transactional analysis group therapy on marital burnout (P=0.02) appeared to be effective.
The results revealed that transactional analysis group therapy was effective on relationship beliefs and couples burnout in married male students.

Infertility is accompanied by numerous physical, psychological and economic issues, leading to significant impacts on spousal relations, marital satisfaction or burnout of a couple. Relationship beliefs have a significant role in the management of this stressful factor as well as in marital relations. This research sets out to study relationship beliefs and marital burnout among fertile and infertile couples. The population of this descriptive-correlational study comprises of fertile and infertile couples seeking treatment from Mashhad Infertility Treatment Clinic (2012). Via convenience sampling, 130 fertile and 130 infertile couples were selected according to medical criteria. The participants filled out the demographic data, Pine's Burnout Measure, and Epstein and Eidelson's Relationship Belief Inventory questionnaires. The data were analyzed through descriptive statistical methods, step by stem regression, one way variance analysis, Scheffe's tests, multi variable variance analysis, and independent T-test by SPSS version 18. All the scores concerning relationship beliefs were higher in the fertile group in comparison to the scores within the infertile group, except for the destructiveness belief and inflexibility of the spouse (respectively P=0.28, P=0.21) other factors in the fertile and infertile groups were significantly different. Regarding the marital burnout factor, the scores pertaining to psychological burnout were significantly higher in the infertile group (P=0.001). Although the scores pertaining to physical burnout were higher in the infertile group, and emotional burnout was higher in the fertile group, these differences were not significant. Compared to the fertile group, the infertile couples are characterized by stronger relationship beliefs, but they experience higher marital burnout in physical and psychological dimensions.

Background and Health in the physical, mental and social aspects is one of the subjects had involved human communities for long time ago. The environment of the house and the household and family organize the center of mental health of population, and its role and performance affect other social units considerably. Hence for access to this object it is very important to consider about unsuitable minds changes more effectively and efficiently. Searching for relation between marital satisfaction and irrational communicative belief is one of the important cases. This research is a periodic analytic descriptive method, single-group and with two-variable that it was performed among married nurses at the collegiate hospital in Mashhad. Sample volume was estimated 200 cases. The characteristic variables such as age, sex, level of education, title and the number of children and independent variable research, marital communicative belief and dependent variable and marital satisfaction was studied with the questionnaire of communicative belief scale (RBI) and with the questionnaire of marital satisfaction scale (MHS). The satisfaction-correlation measure in total satisfaction choice the sum of satisfaction in 10 other choice was studied in separate field and with communicative belief (the total score of belief). The correlation between the sun of marital satisfaction and communicative belief was calculated r=-0.337 with p<0.001 with total satisfaction r=-0.311 with p<0.001. There was reverse meaningful relation. The correlation of total marital satisfaction and the sum of marital satisfaction with irrational communicative belief was reverse meaningful relation in separate fields such as destructive disagreement, different sex and spouse incompatibility, but in fields of the expectation of minds exploration and sexual perfectionism don’t achieve meaningful relation. In this research, the results indicate that hypothesis of this research, between marital satisfaction measure and irrational marital communicative belief is reverse relation, is confirmed. The increment of marital satisfaction is a way that products tranquility in household environment and develops the mental and physical health and also it is a way for solving social problems and dilemma due to marital and family problems. With improvement of communicative belief we can prevent from problems of communicative encounter between people, or we can solve these types of problems easily if they happen.