Family Management by Husband as Mirrored by Revelation

If the revelatory verses are reflected upon, it will be understood that the reasonable idea of managing the family by man never means domination and oppression; for, the mutual relations between two spouses in the Holy Quran are against all kinds of oppression, and such relations are never aimed to consider spouses as two claimants against each other trying to gain their rights. But rather, moral teachings such as conventional treatment (muashirah maruf), forgiveness, harmony, selfsacrifice and the like are at the center of this culture. Thus, in such a modern culture, the notion of husband's custody of his wife is such amanagement that is, to continue and develop family system and bring spouses to peace, necessary and even satisfactory and reasonable. Under such morality-centered circumstances, the effects of man's management and woman's being managed are of a moral kind and all decisions and rules will become consistent with virtues. In sum, paying attention to spouse's demand will prevent all misconducts and misuses and adorn spouses privacy with lofty morality-centered models.