Cultivation of Desirable Social Relationship on the Basis of Divine Self-Examination

Many nastiness and problems in social relationships, especially among juvenile and youngsters are indication of the failure of the training system in cultivating skills such as self-consciousness, altruism and concordance, camaraderie and synergism and its inefficiency to be accountable to spiritual and moral needs of trainees. Islam proposes a comprehensive plan for all aspects of mankind’s life, which is in full compliance with his inborn tendencies and his inner structure. Its main target in all the training programs, even in improving social relationship, is cultivating and materializing his inborn capacities and materializing his existential perfection. The present article is aiming at answering the very important question dealing with Trans-moral: “Why should I be seeking others improvement, and why should I unilaterally be at others disposal?”This is materialized through explaining desirable social relationship on the basis of divine self-assessment. The approach introduces the trainee to him as he is and as he is supposed to be at the end of the evolving trend; meanwhile, it reminds him of the fact that while he is passing through evolution process to reach an elevated level, he should guide other human beings, as well. The more he makes effort to make others become perfect, the more he himself becomes perfect, and this leads to his own growth; nevertheless its impact leads to another type of growth as well. Such a vision, on the one hand, leads to some sort of development on the part of the instructors and leads to a gradual process: changing from selfishness to self-cultivation; and on the other, leads the society environment toward an environment over flown by righteousness, benevolence, generosity and mutual social support, and paves the road for a training-oriented society.