Phenomenological Explanations of the Boys and Girls relationship's Experiences in Universities (Case Study: Payam Noor University of Ardebil Province)

With the entrance of Iranian society to the word modern system, the families have gone through some important changes. One of these changes is the increasing friendship relationships between boys and girls before marriage. Iran Islamic society has always put great emphasis on strong family ties, to keep away any relationships that might harm this bond. This study was a qualitative phenomenological one using half structured interviews and snowball(chain) random sampling. The sample included 25 female and male. Ardebil Payam Noor university students who set forth their experiences about the problems. The conversations were recorded and analyzed using collaizz method. In this study seven main themes, each including sub-themes were extracted. The main themes were emotional and psychological needs, Curiosity environmental and peer pressures, sense of independence, reven and relief, weakness of belief and faith, and mass media.
Regarding the causes of themes, student's answers ranged around two main themes of; meeting emotional needs and sexual needs. According to students if the causes and problems were considered seriously, the number of such unhealthy relations would decrease and young people would experience a happy life with a good marriage.