The social construction of love in the language of everyday life (Narrative of love from the perspective of Kurdish couples)

The purpose of this research is to obtain the mental-perceptual formulation of Kurdish ethnic couples from the experience of love. Therefore, the most important question of this study is formulated in this way: How do loving couples experience love in different situations and situations in life? Answering the questions in this study does not require a specific hypothesis and, as we enter the field of study, people's lived experience of love has been questioned. Using the phenomenological research method, 10 participants (20 persons) were selected from Kurdish ethnic couples who had experienced love. Prior to entering the field of study and beginning the interview, exploratory studies of important love modes and situations were extracted through the lovers, and these modes and situations were divided into five stages during the interview. The analysis of the texts from the interviews was done through James Paul Gee discourse analysis method. The results of the analysis of the interviews show that love has been experienced in different ways in different stages of life. But what is striking is the difference in feeling, action and action in the pre-love phase with the later stages of the romantic life together.