A Study and Comparison of the Loving Dimensions According to the Three-Dimensional Theory of Strasburg in Different Periods ofAffiance Spousal, Marriage and Having Offspring Among Four Groups of Couples

Love is a psychological process, which psychogists have considered in recent decades. Since this process is an important fours of marriage. Kephart (1965) and Espercher (2002) understood from their research that love is a requisite for getting married. A theorist of love is Strasburg. He understood from study that love is a psychological state and is of three dimensions of cordiality, frenzy and especial conditions in each time. Researchers have studied satisfaction and happiness in married life through some researcher and compered them at different times. These researches show that couple's satisfaction, happiness and adjustment are high at the beginning of their married life. They decrease when children start going to school and again increase aftermard. Therefore, their fluctuation is like the letter U. None of the preceding research has studied the change in. In this reaearch the situation of love value was studied and a sample of 500 couples at 4 periods of affiance, spousal, after marriage and breeding the children. The results show there is a significant difference between situation of love value. The fluctuation of love in its multiple dimensions varies among men and women. In addition there is a significant correlation between love value of men and theirw wives.