فصلنامه فرهنگی - تربیتی زنان و خانواده
سال شانزدهم شماره 54 (بهار 1400)

The family as the smallest and main unit of society which is formed by the bond of marriage. The stability of marriage and the family has great importance because of its impact on the individual and society. Every marriage is associated with an introduction called dating. The aim of this study was to investigate how couples get acquainted before marriage with a qualitative phenomenological method. The data collection tool was an in-depth and semi-structured interview. The study population is consisted of women with stable marriages who had been married for at least 5 years and who had given their marriage a score of at least seven out of ten. The sample was purposefully selected and interviewed with 19 people until the data was saturated. By analyzing the interviews conducted and coding the sentences and phrases, different types of participants' familiarity were identified. The findings included six main themes: "Planning for acquaintance, initial familiarity with the framework, understanding of characteristics and moods, behavioral observations, and facilitating families to deepen cognition, counseling, and counseling." The results showed that in different types of acquaintances of women with stable marriages, attention has been paid to cultural and family frameworks. The findings of the present study can be used in the design of premarital counseling model for guidance on how to get acquainted and its effect on marital stability.

The aim of this study was to construct a jealousy questionnaire based on Islamic theoretical foundations. To study the Islamic sources following content analysis method and to evaluate the validity of the questionnaire following the survey method by random selection, a sample of 100 scholars and students of religious sciences of Imam Khomeini Educational and Research Institute in the academic year 1397-1396 Were exploited. The structure derived from Islamic sources for zeal includes the components of insight, emotional, behavioral, communicative and sexual. The content validity of this structure was calculated by the experts of religion and psychology according to the Likert structure of four options with a total average of 3.0 and a variance of 0.564 and the validity of the items was obtained with an average of 2.875 and Kendall's coordination coefficient at 99% confidence level. The high correlation between the components with the whole test was also between the items indicating the construct validity. The validity of the test was obtained by examining the internal consistency of the questionnaire with Cronbach's alpha coefficient at the level of 0.87. The two semi-constructions also have a credit of / 799. And 637 /. Showed for two halves, so this questionnaire has good validity and validity. As a result, the Jealousy Questionnaire can be used as a valid and scientific tool in Islamic research and quantification.

Marital infidelity can cause many injuries to people and cause them to lose their marital relationships. The purpose of this study was to identify the types of marital infidelity injuries. The research was a qualitative one and systematic review and exploratory interviews were used to extract the types of marital infidelity injuries. In the systematic review section, 31 articles out of a total of 65 articles were searched and selected during the process. Also, for exploratory interview, 20 couples involved in marital infidelity were selected by purposeful method and interviewed. The opinions of 14 family professionals were also examined to assess the validity of the list of marital infidelity injuries. The results showed that marital infidelity was harmful in all aspects of individual (physical and psychological), family, social and spiritual. In the individual dimension, sleep disturbance, eating disorder, anxiety, depression, loss of trust, in the family dimension, emotional relationships decline, stress in the family, loss of family intimacy, disturbance of parental duties, loss of social dimension Honor, job problems, and financial problems, and in the spiritual dimension, tormented conscience and guilt as the most important traumas of marital infidelity. Based on the results, it can be said that marital infidelity is not an individual problem but a comprehensive injury and requires comprehensive interventions to prevent and treat it.

Today, preventing or relieving loneliness is one of the basic human needs. On the other hand, the emergence of certain needs motivates people to have children, because the child is considered as a factor that leads to a change in the social relations between their parents, which in turn reduces the feeling of loneliness. Accordingly, the main purpose of this study is to explain the two-way relationship between feelings of loneliness and attitudes toward childbearing. This study is a social survey and the statistical population of the study is all citizens living in Tehran. The sample size is estimated at 550 people based on the sample power sample software, and the respondents were randomly surveyed in each geographical area based on the demographic characteristics of the population of Tehran. The results of the present study indicate the inverse and significant relationship between loneliness and attitude towards childbearing. In other words, people feel less lonely and have a more positive attitude toward having children. Conversely, people with a positive attitude toward childbearing feel less lonely. This two-way relationship, in addition to being confirmed by Pearson correlation coefficient, was also confirmed in the structural equation model, and the output results of the structural equation return model indicate the interaction or reciprocal effect of the two variables.

The aim of this study was to design a model for predicting family performance, coping style with marital conflict and cognitive flexibility based on the analysis of the trend of changes in family evolutionary cycles in divorced couples. The research method is causal-comparative which is based on one-way analysis of variance and quadratic regression. The statistical population was couples applying for divorce who referred to the family court in the first 6 months of 1397 in East Azarbaijan province. By purposive sampling method, 200 couples (400 people) with inclusion criteria were selected as the research sample. The research tool is a questionnaire that, according to Macmaster model, family functioning, marital conflict coping styles of Rahim Questionnaire (ROCI-II) and cognitive flexibility of the questionnaire (Dennis and Vanderwall, 2010) have been developed. Data were analyzed using trend analysis, one-way analysis of variance and quadratic substantive regression with SPSS Software. The results of process analysis showed that changes in family functioning, coping style with marital conflict and cognitive flexibility at different stages of the transformation period of the family of couples seeking divorce are significant. The highest level of family performance is the style of coping with marital conflict and cognitive flexibility in the stages of marriage and without children. Family performance, marital conflict coping style, and cognitive flexibility decrease with the arrival of the first child, and are usually the least variable during adolescence and increase again during the empty nest stage (P <0.01). The results show that family performance, coping style with marital conflict and cognitive flexibility of couples follow the stages of family family development. Therefore, it is suggested that couples pay attention to teaching the necessary social skills to the adolescent and rebuild their relationships with others after the child's adolescence.

The aim of the present study was to investigate the lived experience of mothers from the sex rearing of their preschool children. This research was performed qualitatively using a phenomenological approach that in which 11 mothers of one to three children at least 3 to 6 years old were interviewed in depth and explored. Data were collected, recorded and coded and was analyzed with Colaizzy method in the form of main and sub-thematic themes. Analysis of 205 Preliminary Code, led to the identification of 2 themes (Sexual Innocence preservation and sexual abuse prevention Channel) and 8 sub-themes (Self-based maternal care, Child-based care, Monitoring of Sexual content, Answering to the child's sexual questions, Pay attention to the needs of the child, Respect and attention to the child's wishes, Pay attention to the child's relationship with others and Improvement of self-care skills). The final structure of participants' experience suggests that sex rearing is multidimensional in preschoolers with Using care, supervision, attention, accountability and training methods.

The issue of family management, in addition to being addressed in Islamic teachings, has also been researched in many new sciences, such as psychology, and the compilation and comparative study of different theories can clarify the type of family management system in both Islamic and psychological approaches. N. Therefore, the present study has been written with the aim of explaining the necessity of having a manager in the family and choosing a man as its manager, as well as the effects of male authority on the realization of Islamic functions of the family from the perspective of Islam and psychology. Qualitatively, data related to the man's management and his psychological characteristics as well as verses and narrations related to the purposes of marriage were collected and then the necessity of giving a managerial role to the man and its relationship with the functions of marriage was explained. Findings show that the management of the family from the perspective of Islam is the responsibility of the man, the reasons for which are the distinguishing characteristics of the man and the payment of alimony by the man, and psychologically, based on some inherent traits of men such as domination, skill Men with more mentality and sense of responsibility in managing life are the most worthy option for managing the family. Also, the management of the man over the institution of the family is related to the satisfaction of life and peace of mind of the couple, and the acceptance of such authority in the man, in addition to resolving differences in the family, correctly shapes the process of gender role in children.