Renewal: The ravages of marriage and the formation of a family

A pattern of marriage is subject to the cultural system. The arrival of modern culture in the Muslim world has made Islamic families face serious problems. Some try to reconcile modernity and the Islamic family, but the reality is that modernity has a fundamental conflict with Islam and the institution of the family. Homelessness in the Western world is the product of modern civilization and modernism has damaged the Islamic world in all areas, especially in the family. Pattern injury of marriage is one of the basic elements of these injuries. To explain this issue, first, a general picture of the family in Islam, the fundamental beliefs and personality of modern human beings is presented. Then, by referring to the requirements of modern culture, the harms of marriage have been rationalized in the form of concepts: sexual commodification, personality heterogeneity, idealization, inability to perform tasks and lowering the threshold of patience and compromise. The totality of the research shows the roots of the problems and how to build a strong Islamic family by consciously confronting modernity.