Investigating the preference of women activists in family formation with emphasis on the concept of selectivity

The importance of the family has long been important - even in the unbridled societies of the West and the East - but the family today seems to have changed. So that in modern families, the role of families in marriage is very minimal. In the traditional family, families, especially the father, had the most role and the daughter played a very small role. So he had to wait for the suitors and if the suitor did not come, he either had to form his own undesirable family or choose celibacy, in which the father's opinion played a key role. Accordingly, the present article seeks to ask whether female activism is preferable in family formation or not? .Therefore, by examining religious sources, he deals with "proving the preference of women's electors with the help of religious sources" and then proves the "preference of women's electors using social science theories", which are: communication arguments (communication action) Habermas), intellectual (combination of right and duty), educational (relationship between coach and educator) and economic (adaptation theory) and finally concludes that in today's society, women activists in the formation of the family is preferable to traditional and modern methods. Finally, by examining the harms, he proposes a favorable model of female activism in forming a family based on "choice by the girl" and "courtship by the boy".