the process of the forming the infidelity from perspective of men

Bacground And Aim: increase of infidelity in social, had many consequences, that at least its consequence, is dispersion of families. Objective of this study is exploring of the process of forming of infidelity from perspective divorced mens.
researcher for this object used methodology of grounded theory. By using of purposeful sampling, participant of this research is composed of 16 divorced men's in gachcaran city.
result of this research extracted in frame of 3 main category "in adaptation sexual – emotional men whit women, social – cultural structure that preparing sexual dissatisfaction men and women, and incorrect wife selection" and 1 core category : meta coupling relation: latent
according to the narrative of the participants, their wife selection, or was in constraint circumstance or for instrumental using. In the most of their marriage, the men's had high age difference with their womens. so, at the start, they don’t love each other. Thus they don’t abolish their sexual – emotional needs of each other. For the reason of taboo of speaking about the quality of sexual relation in families, the women's couldnt express their real needs about the quality of satisfaction sexual relation with their husband. This circumstance prepared the dissatisfaction contextual in families. Women in this circumstance with the doing of meta couple relation with the latent expressed their apposed to the real circumstance in their families.