Communication in Social Life; Models, Effects and Harms

There is a direct relationship between the evaluation of men’s behavior in social life and their models of behavior. The present paper tries to identify the motive, negative and positive effects of each of these models and the best communicative model. The research uses an analytical-descriptive method which is based on religious, psychological, and sociological data. The main findings of the research show that there is a kind of negative modesty in the compromising behavior, which, with the aim of avoiding tension and winning admiration, leads to lack of identity, dissatisfaction, and creation of negative feelings. Exercising selfish behavior and using one's power motivate aggressive behavior which brings about a sense of sinfulness and loss of intimacy. A considerable freedom of expressing one's feelings and resistance against people’s inappropriate demands is an indication of one's courageous behavior, and the best way to attain this behavior is to resort to “my (ego) message” through which one can build the best communicative model by recognizing the mistakes which occur while sending the message.