Love,subjectivity and power

The purpose of present study is the relationship between love and power and its effect on the subjectivity. In this respect it will be shown that the truth of love is not necessary none historical and essential but it is discursive truth which articulated in the context of discursive regimes and strategies. The problem is that how the discourse of love, by psychiatry and psychology, construct a lover subject that can be called «skillful lover». This idea will be scrutinized that the remnant and the mystified dimension of subjective experience of love and the struggle for capturing them is not based on substantial, essential or natural aspect of love but is a discursive construction of the mystical and the remnant. Discourse of love constructs love based on the mystical and the natural and by the science tries to discover the secret of love. Around the constructive nature of this mystification, scientific struggles and discourses are produced. The skills of love in the scientific forms are produced and distributed. With this respect love try to be normalized based on science. Modern love discourse exploits the Sufism and philosophical elements of previous discoursesin the form of love to the absolute and myth of beauty. The articulation of modern love discourse, impose itself to everyday life and construction of lover subject.